I was going to title this Post "That Darn Cat!"
However, oh - that it was just ONE cat?!?!?!
It's not... oh Lord - how it is not!?!
OK - so here is the deal... Let me start off by saying this:
I am a Cat Lover... I love cats...
well - maybe not ALL cats, but MY cat for sure - & many others...
I don't know if I am what you would call a Pet Lover...
but - I am pretty soft and while I wouldn't want to own a dog -
I get the connection and used to own one (or two) as a kid.
All of that said, let me follow it up by saying
this is a "drama" that has been a long time coming!
Years, really?!
So - here it is... my Dave - Mr. Pollyanna,
Laid-Back, It's-all-Good kinda guy
had finally had ENOUGH of our "Wild Cat" problem!
Yes... wild cats. LOTS of them!?
It started maybe 6 years ago...
we had a stray start coming around
& she was fairly tame & pretty friendly,
& my neighbor began feeding her.
One cat... no problem.
Turns out this sweet little cat was somewhat of a tramp
& before we knew it we had several litters of kittens
& offspring gathering around the area.
Now, if they just came to eat & then moved on
... fine, great! They are cute!
Eventually, though, this neighbor began to purchase
expensive cat beds & toys & basically set up a pampered cat
vacation home for all the strays.
We've now had SEVERAL generations
of wild cats from a nearby field
migrate up to the Hampton's & settle in.
Keep in mind... We live in a 4-plex...we entertain outside...
we have a flower garden outside... we USE the lawn out there...
Our neighbors do not...
which is why for at least three years
we have diplomatically complained
about this cat issue that has gotten out of hand?!
Finally, about two weeks ago,
while visiting our neighbors, my calm, laid back husband
plainly said, "OK... we HAVE to do something about these cats!?"
He went on to explain WHY we don't want them around anymore
& how much damage they are doing to the yard,
garden, other property, etc.
When you come to my front door - it smells like a cat box!
Charming!?
I can not let my (MY!!!) cat outside anymore
because the wild cats fight him
& I don't want him to get sick!
(He already has a wound that is
not really healing very well!?)
Nice!?
I am gonna need new Patio furniture in the Spring...
I will have to through away my wicker couch in the garden...
And they have quite possibly destroyed
my flower garden this winter...
Fed up!? Oh yeah... we are...
So - in this conversation,
my honey said that she needs to stop feeding them
- that is the first step!
We need to get rid of the Hilton hotel outside
& encourage them to move on.
If that doesn't work,
we'll have to call the Humane Society or someone.
She agreed to stop feeding them.
(Oh - did I mention that this neighbor is my Mom!?
Yeah... she is my Mom...
adds a nice little dimension now, doesn't it?!)
So... she manages to not feed them for about a day or two...
then gives in.
I can see why - honestly!?
She has been feeding them for years & they are hungry...
sitting on my BBQ and patio table,
staring in her window, looking for food!?
But, here's the deal - they are not her pets!?
They are not tame enough to allow her to pet them...
they are not clean or caught up on their shots...
they are not 'fixed'...
if you attempt to reach out to them,
they either run away or hiss...
I honestly don't know if they would attack.
I doubt it - but you can never know.
Because, as cute as they are...
they are still, in fact, wild cats?!
So - as promised,
when my husband found food in the dishes,
he dumped them out?!
He is not a real confrontational guy!
He talked with the other neighbors
(one of which are the landlords who are
afraid to confront my Mom but also want it to stop)
and we are all in agreement.
One neighbor has two very expensive dogs...
they don't really get to go outside anymore, possibly,
for fear that they will get some disease.
Honestly - we are all just wanting the cats to be gone.
We called the pound... it will require us to go pick up cages,
CATCH the cats, and pay $25 PER CAT to turn in the cages.
(Oh my?!)
After a day or two of dumping the food,
my Mom figured it out & was livid!
She, in her anger, compared my husband to George W. Bush.
LOL!? Honestly!? For me... that is a compliment,
but to her - she might as well used a cuss word!
(That is another thing - we have a long running agreement
to NOT talk politics!? LOL!?)
So... we knew the big blow up was inevitable...
& on Sunday, before church,
my Mom & my husband got into it.
I can't even know what they said!
I prayed rather than go outside & get involved!
By the end of the day, they had both apologized to the other
(via other people due to schedules more than avoidance!)
My Mom agreed to stop feeding the cats.
That was Sunday... This is Tuesday...
She is already saying if they are still here by Friday
she will feed them again?!
Oh LORD?!
Honestly?! We have lived next door
to each other for over a decade...
We have made it through many
family challenges, religion, sicknesses,
family moving away, family passing away,
the 2000 (& 2004) Presidential Elections,
and this... THIS?!?!... is what is going to break us!?
THIS is what we are going to stop talking about?!
Honestly?!
(I haven't even MENTIONED the health issues!?)
So... trivial!? High school stuff?!
I didn't play this drama crap when I WAS in High school?!
I am really not interested in playing it now?!
We are going to have to do more than not feed them!
They have been raised here
& they are not going away on their own!?
It frustrates me to think we may have to pay
for these cats to be taken away,
but someone is going to have to deal with it...
I guess that makes my husband an @#$()&*.
But, God love him,
I can't wait to sit outside in my own yard &
enjoy a sunset in the Spring & not smell a litter box!
So - other than THAT stupid drama, I have been busy at work...
I made two sets of various 'blank inside' cards
("I feel like that too!?" ~Brian Regan!)
& one large set of Valentine's cards.
I also made a Mini Promise Book Album for a friends' birthday!
I loved it! It turned out great... if I do say so myself!
So, here are a few examples of what I was working on this week!
Whew?! So - there ya go... a bit of venting, and a bit of crafting...
I went to Prayer this morning...
& had coffee with a friend this afternoon...
Got to tell both clients I am done with their orders,
& I am placing a Stampin' Up! order today
& I get a couple of the SAB sets, too!
New TOYS!!! I can't wait!!!
Oh yeah, & in the middle of that week,
I hosted my Scrap Happy link
& I was the only one that showed up?!
THE ONLY ONE!?!??!?!
I got 4 pages done... but still!?
It's GOT to get better (& less trivial!) soon!
(Go ahead, Darcie... hit me with some lyrics! LOL! I know they are comin'!)
~Karri~